Great literature creates a space for empathy for the human condition, working its magic in unexpected ways. Last night I found myself in a particular netherworld you might relate to: I’ve finished a great book, I don’t like the book assigned from my book club, I don’t have a show I particularly need to watch, and I want something nourishing …
Valuing Seclusion
Our recent summer travel highlighted a new and reasonable expectation from my kids: a daily dose of seclusion. The kids are 14 and 16, respectively, and it’s not surprising that they want time to themselves. These are age-appropriate needs. What caught me off guard is how blind I was to those needs in spite of sharing them. Since 2017, we …
Same Vacation, Different Trips
As a DIY independent traveler, I assume full responsibility for our vacations: optimizing credit card points to purchase airfare, reserving Airbnb accommodations, verifying that sites of interest are open on the dates we schedule visits, managing domestic travel via plane, Metro, bus and Ferry. I also create the itinerary. Over the years I’ve come to understand the characteristics that make …
What Your Allergy List Says About You
I am a fan of the physician finance blogger Side Hustle Scrubs, a fellow ER doc who was my spirit animal. He made me laugh like no one before or since. He abruptly deleted his blog in 2019, and left no trace. Using a little black magic, I’ve resurrected his most memorable post. I hope to prod my old friend …
Rehearsal
I am up before dawn. My daughter is about to leave the U.S. for a couple of weeks on an all expenses paid program to another country, part of a sponsored cultural exchange. She will live with a family, converse in the language of the land, and experience the solitude and growth that accompanies this type of experience. I am …