Go from burnt out to FIREd up.
The most telling sign of aging has become the degree of discomfort I am willing to put up with during travel. A dear friend makes his home in the Andes in Peru, and recently returned from a week-long trek at 17,000 feet of altitude. During his trip, he exceeded the height of Everest base camp at times. We spoke on …
Physicians provide a historically target rich environment for financial predators. We assume our expertise in medicine translates into competence in other spaces, like investing. How do I know? ‘Cause I’m a doctor, that’s how I know!Alternately, we plead ignorance to all other facets of life because we are so darn busy saving lives. Finances? Who has time? Why dirty hands …
As a medical student at UCSF, I attended a two-physician panel intended to orient us to the future we were heading toward before we commenced our third year clinical rotations. One speaker was a gentle-voiced and charismatic academic internist who told us we were joining a tradition of healers who practiced the art of medicine. Mastering the science was necessary …
As you’ve figured out, dear reader, there’s been a bit of sadness prevailing over my mood for the last few weeks, which is why this morning offered me an extraordinary symbol of hope. To understand, I must begin with an oblique explanation: I am an unrepentant Californian. As such, I have evolved dietary preferences for which I employ terms that …
This morning I walked my son to his first day of junior high school. On our brief walk, he was the adult. Me: I’m going to miss hanging out and playing strategy games. Him: We’ll still spend plenty of time hanging out. Me: You’ll be busy with school work and friends, which is normal. Him: I’ll need your help with …
As the school year begins with pandemic uncertainty hanging over us all, certain facts help keep me grounded in mundane reality. I have two kids in middle school, both of whom have been seeing an orthodontist for “monitoring.” The eldest child recently had her follow up, at which time it was deemed that her teeth were not going to straighten …
I recently read an article in the New Yorker by Heidi Julavits. On the surface, it was an exploration of an active volcanic eruption in an accessible area of Iceland not far from the capital of Reykjavik. The article accomplished many of the goals of excellent nature writing. It faithfully reproduced difficult to spell Icelandic cities. It delivered a sense …
I’ve started keeping a journal, the first time I’ve resumed this activity in a decade and a half. It brings to mind a 14 year old emptying her emotional life in looping cursive within a Hello Kitty bound book, all while lying in bed speaking on the phone with the cord wrapped around her hand – something out of an …
I am putting the finishing touches on this summer’s three week domestic travel itinerary, which will be a family road trip through northern California. I just totaled up the prices for our airbnb stays. Blame it on pent-up demand for travel, the relative safety of the outdoors, or simply the compelling nature of visiting our national parks, but it’s going …
I recently read about Parker Palmer in a book on life design, and my interest was piqued sufficiently to lead me to a commencement speech he gave at Naropa University in 2015. Naropa is a Buddhist educational center in Boulder, Colorado, so we had a not-your-typical-speaker at a not-your-typical-university scenario. I thought one passage moving enough to share as a …